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Do you suspect the girl you are writing to is a scammer?
- Run a background check on her ( ask for video file, LiveVideoChat, for copy of her passport or driving licence )
- Make phone conversations and LiveChats be essential part of your communication, stay as close as possible
- Don't leave your meeting in person for too long ahead, it always stays the best way to get to know each other
Warning signs !!!
- She avoids direct talking of her personal life.
- She never answers your questions, and doesn't ask you about anything.
- She falls in love with you after first two letters. Until you've met in person and spent time together, you can never be sure about real feelings.
- She seems far too beautiful to be true - Ask her to send additional photos that are taking in casual life.
- She often says she can visit you, be aware - there's always visa issues!!!
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The easiest way to avoid being scammed is to simply never send a girl money, at least not until you've met her in person !
And the last one, but not less important thing ! Talking with a woman through Dating services don't be too sceptical. It's true, there are scammers. But most of women are honest and really searching for soul mate and love. Don't suspect every one on your way, don't harm yourself and feelings of the others.
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How to establish a successful communication with a woman and avoid scamming.
Over the last several years Internet has been and still remains one of the most popular ways of dating and establishing serious and lasting relations. It is a great way out for those who made up their mind to find a life partner abroad. You probably know many examples of such couples whose relations turned out to be happy and lasting. But unfortunately starting relations on line can also involve much disappointment. Mostly this happens when you come across with scamming. Not long time ago people were not familiar with this phenomenon but now everybody knows that while surfing through the net you can come across dishonest people whose only aim would be to take advantage of you financial state. Unfortunately you can become a victim of a scammer in every country and the only way to avoid this is to get as much as possible information about the nature of scamming , as they say, "being warned" means the same as "being armed". The saddest thing is that far not all the girls are scammers and most of them are decent, sincere and eager to find a life partner. So, the question is how not to be mislead and tell a good girl from a scammer?! Below you would find some useful information that would help you to avoid this negative experience.
Being on-line for some time already you can notice that mostly you can come across with two types of starting relations. You can choose an agency that place ladies in their database and suggests gentlemen to communicate with them with the help of their mail system or also you can find a lady on a free dating site and start talking to her directly. So, now let's try to describe the peculiarities of both.
If you decided to get in contact with a woman who is a member of a marriage agency, you get a great deal of advantages as well as you avoid some certain risks.
So, if you choose this variant of communication you can be sure that:
- You are talking to a woman who really exists as every reputable agency works only with real clients, checking their ids and all other contact information involved. Moreover, looking through the profile you can see a lot of photos of your lady made in real life, with the members of her family, friends or at work. You can also ask for a video file with the girl or get the copy of her passports or some other document thus make sure she is for real. Besides, video chats stay one of the best ways to inrich communication.
- Even if you lady does not speak English, it would not influence your communication at all. No matter whether you are writing her a letter or talking on the phone, you would be assisted by a professional interpreter and this way your communication with a girl would not suffer from misunderstandings that are caused by the lack of knowledge of English, which is of a great importance when it comes to thoughts and feelings you want to express. Here you may say, why not using the special translation program on-line?! You can use the one, of course, but this letter would give only very basic sense of the idea you wanted to express.
- Unfortunately the electronic program that is able to translate personal letters exactly has not been invented yet!
- If you decide to surprise your girl by giving her flowers or something else to make her pleased, everything you order would be delivered and you would also get a proof of that, i.e. a photo of your lady holding your gift, thus you would see with your own eyes how flattered and happy she is!
- If you like to get more photos of your lady in some peculiar situation like at her work, at home, visiting her favorite park or something else, the agency would arrange a special photo session for your lady and then looking at the photos would make you understand and feel the inner world of your lady better and thus would make your relations more meaningful.
- Planning a trip to your lady, the agency would arrange everything for you to feel most comfortable and delighted while visiting your lady's hometown. It would save your time and money as you would not have to address different places to help you with the transfer, apartment, etc. This way, you would spend more time with your lady, spending great moments together.
- You would NEVER get a letter where the girl is asking for money, financial, medical support or no matter how else it can be called. The agency would block such requests and the lady would be deleted from the database at once.
- Any time you can contact the manger of the agency and you would get an answer on any question you might have and you would be given all the necessary information concerning your communication with a lady and everything else you would be curious or bothered about.
Well, now let's take another variant. If you decided to get in contact with a girl on a free dating site, you should always keep in mind that such sites only place the photo and the information about the girl and they can not give you any guarantee that you are talking to a real person. Unfortunately the statistics shows that many girls place fake profiles with stolen photos of models or just some passing by beautiful girls in the street. Do you think you would like to fall in love with a fake lady and be disappointed and hurt afterwards?! To avoid such a sad experience, try to be attentive and do not ignore some typical signs that show you might be dealing with a scammer. Below you can find most widespread of them. So, be cautious if:
- The girl you are talking to looks too beautiful to be true. Keep in mind the photo might have been stolen from a magazine or even created in a Photoshop.
- Her letters seem too general and formal and you never get replies on your questions. It means that the girl probably does not read your letters and is not interested in your personality.
- Each time she ignores questions concerning her personal life, the place she lives, her family, etc.
- She falls in love with you after several first letters. Even in real life this can not happen so fast, not mentioning the on-line communication.
- The girl loves you so much that she is eager to visit you in your country immediately only if you cover all her travel expenses.
The problem of fraud and cheating in the Internet system is one of the most important. The reason is that we do not know people whom we chat or correspond or want to meet with personally and it is risky equally both for men and women.
Many Internet sites contain lists of scammers. Though, the well half of them are to mislead and doens't show true facts. When you see the picture or the lady you talk to and her name there, just try to connect with the owner of that site to find out the reason of placing her there. More often, the the answer will be unclear and sound very indistinct. There are black lists created for men, where their names and addresses are placed. They are discusses on forums too, so women could protect themselves from fraud as well.
We do work hard to protect interests of both sides, by getting contact information, checking, keeping close contact with our clients, keeping copies of documents. Still it's not always guaranteed the successful relationship. The time only shows true intentions and features of characters. We are always ready to assist you in your search, but it always stays for you to choose the best ways to your happiness !